ESTABLISH BETTER FRIENDSHIPS

Positive and meaningful relationships can be a route to success, but what can you do if you realise that you don’t agree with the type of future that your five biggest friends sculpt for you? Basically, if your dreams and ambitions are greater than those of your friends, then you have three options. You have the option of dumping your friendships for new friendships aligned with your goals and ambitions. You can also keep your friendships, but develop new ones and find role models that will help you reach your goals. Or you may choose to sacrifice your desires for the comfort and security of the moment, thus you may choose to keep things as they are.

If you opt for the second option, you will probably find that, while you are creating stronger bonds with the people who are more aligned with your goals and aspirations, your old friendship circle will eventually grow apart and disappear naturally. This is part of life. Although healthy friendships take time and effort to establish, they have many benefits. Having positive and happy friends can lift your mood and improve your outlook. They can even help you accomplish your goals. No matter if you are trying to get fit, improve your grades, or otherwise improve your life, encouragement from a friend can really boost your motivation and improve your chances of success.

Dr Ora Marx